I'm not sure that we ever met, but I wanted to take the time to write to you, (understand I don't know the whole story here) and tell you that there is an organization called HSLDA, which is a group of lawyers whom work to protect our rights to homeschool. NO JUDGE has the right to order that you put your child back in public school, special needs or not. For a fee of $100.00 a year, HSLDA will help you with your case, and assign you a lawyer here in NM.
I've been round and round with lawyers and judges and ex's who think they know better then we what is in the best interest of our children. We've won every time and our on our 11th year of homeschooling. If this is a battle you wish to pursue, I can get you the phone number, or their web address. You may also contact me personally at email@example.com if you wish.